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Guests & RSVP

When to start your wedding website

Start the website as soon as the date and venue city are real. Publish the basics with save-the-dates (often six to ten months out). Open RSVPs when formal invitations go out. Destination weekends need earlier travel detail; short engagements compress the same sequence, they do not skip it.

Week one after the date is set

Claim your guest-site link and park names, date, and city. You do not need a full design or registry to soft-launch. Early clarity beats a perfect layout that ships late.

With save-the-dates

Share the URL (or QR) so guests can start travel planning. Lodging blocks and a basic FAQ matter more than a long love story at this stage.

With invitations

Turn on RSVP, meal options, and any multi-event attendance. Set the deadline early enough that you can chase non-responders before catering guarantees — typically four to five weeks before the wedding for local celebrations.

Destination and short timelines

International or fly-in weekends: publish travel and lodging earlier, and set RSVP deadlines that respect passport and flight lead times. Six-month engagements: publish within the first two weeks and open RSVP as soon as invitations are ready.

How Weduler helps

Both partners edit the same guest site and see RSVPs land on one guest list — including manual replies when someone texts or calls instead of using the form.

Soft-launch the guest site together

Set the date, publish the basics, and keep RSVP timing aligned with your invitations.

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