Vows: short and true
Aim for one to two minutes spoken. Specific beats generic. Agree tone with your partner (humour vs solemn) so you are not blindsided at the altar.
Speeches: assign and timebox
Decide who speaks and for how long. Give speakers a deadline and a do-not-embarrass boundary. Collect drafts in one place if you want a sanity check.
Invitations and thank-yous
The same drafting habit helps invitation wording and thank-you notes — clear, warm, and short beats ornate.
How Weduler helps
Weduler’s speeches and texts tools help you draft invitations, vows, speeches, and thank-yous, then refine wording. Vows can stay private to you; other pieces can be shared when you want partner feedback.
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Draft where the plan already lives
Start a vow or speech draft in your wedding workspace and refine until it sounds like you.
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